FORCE PRO, ACP ADEJOBI TASKS COUPLES TO STAY TOGETHER, SAYS ‘WALKING AWAY IS AN AVOIDANCE TECHNIQUE’
By Oki Samson, Trek Africa Newspaper
Nigeria Police Force PRO, ACP Olumuyiwa Adejobi has enjoined couples to stay together in their marriage as a way of protecting their children from social dislocation and decadence, Trek Africa Newspaper can report.
ACP Adejobi stated that for good homes to abide in the country, parental care must be key for couples.
Addressing the matter, Adejobi noted: ‘I am one of those who campaign against divorce. I always wish parents stayed together to raise their kids and give them the best they need to grow in all areas. I mediate into cases and plead for amicable settlements of matrimonial causes, for peace to reign, and have good homes in our country.’
‘I urge parents to settle their differences as no human being is 100% perfect. Separation of parents has negative impacts on kids, which eventually contributes to social dislocation and decadence. Divorce should not be part of our social ego or a parameter to rate social status like what we see today. It is an absurdity’, Adejobi revealed on his Facebook page.
He, however, sounded a note of caution, ‘I kick and campaign against domestic violence. No matter the tolerance you have, when violence sets in on either side, please walk away and be alive. Walking away is an avoidance technique, and the avoidance method in conflict management doesn’t mean cowardice, but a step to rethink and make the right decision, which could save many calamities in your life. This technique can still produce reconciliation, and the marriage can still be sustained.’
‘Parental care is key and a blessing to a child’s success in life. All religions have given ur the clies and gimmicks to manage and have successful marriages, be wise’, Adejobi concluded.